Once I came to grips with the disheartening fact that I wasn't going to be 6'4" (topped out at 5'7" if I throw my shoulders back), I have been ok with my body for the most part. We all get-what-we-get, thanks to our parents and their parents. We can make it leaner, fatter, tanner, etc. but we are pretty much stuck with the basics (unless you wish plastic surgery on yourself). Keep in mind it is the only one you will ever have. Take good care oif it.
Gratitude is all about appreciating what you HAVE and not wasting time dwelling on what you don't have. There is some power and pro-activity in, getting and being thankful, for a bigger house, better job, nicer car, but they are 'THINGS'. Learning to appreciate and be grateful for God's gifts of the 'non-things' and seeing them for their advantages is the tricky part.
 |
| Couldn't find a recent pic of myself, but I figured this was close enough. |
I could dwell on the parts that are diseased or don't work like or look like they did 50 years ago, but I am mostly pleased with what I see (...being grateful for bad eyesight and a forgetful memory can be a good thing).
That said - saw a great observation from a 'Gratitude' poster I follow, Paul Taubman, today that rings so true:
BE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR BODY
These action tips can help you feel good about your body:
1. Remind yourself to be grateful for the only body you
have. It might sound silly but, unless you have lots of money and time to pay
for and undergo cosmetic surgeries, this is the body you’ve been given.
Accepting it will save you a lot of grief. Think of the alternative – what if
you did not have a body? Thinking this way makes it easier for the gratitude to
start shining!
2. Survey your body “systems.” How well does your body work
for you? Examine the intricacies of your very own body and its functionality.
You’ll likely be pleased at all the things your body does for you.
3. Express your gratitude for your positive attributes. If
you have short, always neat hair, good for you. Strong arms due to working out?
Great. Say to yourself, “Wow! Although my vision is not very good, with my
contacts I have perfect vision!” Maybe you have clear skin or beautiful white
teeth. These are attributes to be proud of.
4. Notice when your body works well for you. Maybe you
almost missed the bus this morning but you ran like a racehorse and jumped on
the bus just before it pulled away. You must admit, it’s a beautiful thing to
be able to run fast enough to catch the bus. Think about and be grateful for
how well your body can respond to your needs.
5. What do you want to change about your physique? Is it
do-able? Be frank with yourself. If you want to be taller, you can buy shoes
with higher heels. Reflect on your possibilities.
6. Develop a realistic plan for change. In the event you
wish to build muscles in your arms, it can be done. But you must consult with
exercise coaches and similar experts to achieve the results you want. Pay
attention to those attributes that you have the power to change.
It’s wise to ensure you’re getting the best information in
your efforts to alter your physical self. Write out your plan about what you
want to change and how you will do it. Then, ask a friend to read it over to
see if your ideas for changing your body are realistic.
7. Commit to your plan to change what’s possible and set
aside time to achieve your goals. Once you realize what you do have the power
to change and you have written a realistic plan, vow to follow your plan.
Allow time in an average day to work your plan. You’re
forming a new habit and it must be repeated several times weekly to achieve the
results you’re after. As you progress through your plan, take time to celebrate
your accomplishments and be grateful that you have reached a milestone, no
matter how small!
8. Deal in healthy ways with things you can’t change. Rather
than get disappointed or angry about one of your body’s attributes, recognize
that certain people are born with certain characteristics that likely are
unable to be changed. But it’s okay because you’ve still survived. You’re still
here at this moment.
Embracing your physical appearance just the way you are is
the best route to living a life of self-confidence and serenity.
9. Take care of your body. The best way to show your love
for your body is to take good care of it. Notice your appearance. Use lotions
and moisturizers to maintain supple, smooth skin. Keep your hair healthy. Take
part in regular and consistent exercise. Provide good nourishment to your body.
No matter what size, weight, or physical attributes you
have, when you take care of your body, you’re showing the love you have for
yourself.
Accepting your body image is so important to your everyday
existence. When you can say, “I’m okay just the way I am,” you’ll lead a
calmer, more settled, happier, and more gratitude filled life.
...PRETTY COOL STUFF
RLW
· My
Blogs
YouTube
No comments:
Post a Comment